Greetings-
Happy Earth Day? This is one of those days that began the spiraling
crumbling process of my brain-why is simply unimportant. Of course it is gloomy
and grey-it matches my mood. That day many years ago was gloomy and grey too. I
should have known.
Something is to be said for the Scarlet Letter or Easy A for
that matter-some people should come with a warning label. I know this is kind
of ironic coming from me being so “anti-label”, but you put your trust in
someone based on faith in humanity and time after time you just don’t know what
hand you are being dealt.
Like you-my narcissist. You should have a label-“Narcissistic
Prick”. I feel like warning labels might be helpful, especially for your next
victim. Some may call me passive aggressive-usually they are of the narcissistic
nature. I can live with passive aggressive- of or denoting a type of behavior or
personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of others and
an avoidance of direct confrontation, as in procrastinating, pouting, or
misplacing important materials. No one is perfect.
Labels-
·
Full of Crap
·
Psychopath
·
Complete with Anger Issues-come on-you have to
admit you kind of can see my point at least.
I am fully aware people are good -kind, generous, loving…and
this is why we might want to think about warning labels.
So much discord and it is not just me- friction, chaos, lack
of harmony. All over the place. Feeling peace-finding peace-just trying to keep
it together.
I live with agoraphobia. I lived life, now I spend a lot of
time observing life…some simple things people need to know (which really would
be common sense).
1. If an elderly man is sick with cancer-PICK UP
THE PIG ROASTER YOURSELF!!!
2.
If the man who bought you a horse is dying-visit
HIM don’t go to Spain!!!
3.
Caregivers are people too-feed them, love them,
call and check on them.
4.
It is so nice that NOW that he is sick-you want
to spend time with him (which I guess in fact more appropriate than a vacation
to Spain).
5.
Don’t lie to children.
6.
Don’t hurt children.
7.
Participate.
8.
If you say you are going to do something-do it.
9.
Be kind.
10.
Caregivers are people too-feed them, love them,
call and check on them. (I know I said that twice).
“Major depressive disorder is one of the most common mental
disorders in the United States. Each year about 6.7% of U.S adults experience
major depressive disorder. Women are 70 % more likely than men to experience
depression during their lifetime. Non-Hispanic blacks are 40% less likely
than non-Hispanic whites to experience depression during their lifetime.
The average age of onset is 32 years old. Additionally, 3.3% of 13 to 18 year
olds have experienced a seriously debilitating depressive disorder” (NIH
National Institute of Mental Health, 2015).
The other day I saw this posted on Facebook- “The only
difference between successful people and non-successful people is this:
Non successful people bitch and complain at what the
successful people are doing. They hate on it and make it their job to be non-successful
hater warlords of negativity.
Successful people laugh at that shit and get the work done.”
I am not sure if this is arrogance, foolishness, but I found it to be slightly
irritating. Let’s start out with what is success? Is it the attainment of
popularity or profit, some may define it as so. Is it about attaining prosperity,
perhaps to some? I guess one would have to define prosperity. I don’t have a
lot of money, but I have made a difference, I have made an impact. I can be-for
the most part-proud of who I am and my actions. By personal definition I am successful
and I am prosperous in all ways that matter.
Today is Earth Day-
Take care of it, we only get one. Take care of your mind,
body, and soul. Take care of others. Do these things every day.
Love and Light-
Agoraphobia Gurl
Reference
NIH (2015) National Institute of Mental Health. What is Depression? Retrieved from: http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/depression/index.shtml
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