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Daddy-Grandpa…it always comes back to Daddy!

     A man with an amazing smile, bright blue eyes, and red hair. A man who could make you smile. A man who could make you feel like everything would be ok. A man who loved to garden and hot damn that man could cook. He made the most amazing shrimp creole! He endured hours of badge work, dancing and doing all kinds of crazy things with us girls. A man who took pride in his appearance. A man who took pride in all aspects of his life. It was very apparent early on his greatest pride and joy was his daughter Tamara. I think-actually I am pretty secure in knowing that he would say his greatest accomplishment was Tamara. Fast forward MANY years-welcome the little heart stealer Travis. He would be the next greatest joy and biggest accomplishment- that Grandparent thing takes things to a whole new level!

    Wayne and Judy met at Schultz Brothers-and the rest was history! They married at Saint Mary’s Church, and had a beautiful little girl named Tamara who they gave every ounce of love they had. Tammy and I met at Hadfield Elementary School on the first day of kindergarten in Mrs. Peterson’s class, for many years we became inseparable. We shared many firsts. We shared love and laughter. As time often does, we had ebbs and flows but she is my first best friend and I love her with all my heart. However this isn’t about me and Tammy.

The Sobye’s-we spent many hours sitting on that front stoop so I got to observe a thing or two. Tinsel is put on the Christmas tree in individual strands, you brew tea in the sun, and raw potatoes are in fact edible. Love is unconditional. Christmas Carols are a must. Family is sacred. Frozen Reese’s Peanut butter eggs are AWESOME! Don’t piss off an Italian. It was a house of love. I had my own little house of love in which Mrs. Sobye would occasionally grace us with her presence and Mom and Judy would sit on the swing on the front porch and laugh. Tammy and I would make crazy cupcakes and little pizzas. Good times with good friends create great memories. My Dad and Judy would get a little crazy too!

My son often says his relationship role models are my parents, because they have what a relationship is supposed to have. I am glad that my son has that. I am glad that he sees that. That is what the Sobye’s had too. They were a strong couple, best of friends, and were together till Judy took her last breath. Love is unconditional. Family is sacred.

Wayne grieved and found the ability to smile and love life again, not only from the love and support of family and friends but from his beloved Fred. I remember the day I met Fred. It was in a Super America, I had not seen “my Mister” in a very long time and I saw him and I started to sob-just sob! I introduced him to my son and Mr. Sobye gave me that award winning smile and a big hug. I was a spectacle! I created a spectacle-and Fred still lets me in the house! You fellas traveled, dined, and enjoyed life. You shared laughter. I am grateful to you.

Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday, May 10, 2015, at the age of 73 years. Loving father of Tamara and proud grandfather of Travis. Very special friend of Fred. Survived by sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

    

Travis referred to his Grandparents as his best friends and that is truly a testament to GREATNESS! When a teenager or young adult still carves out that time and desires to spend that time, because it is so precious with the parents or Grandparents-something was done right!

A house of love built on a firm foundation.

 My Dearest Mr. Sobye-I am sorry I couldn’t get those chocolate chip cookies to you in time. One last I love you till we meet again. You will be missed. You are already missed. You have touched the lives of many. You have made a difference in this world by making it a better place. I am so honored to have known you. I will try and keep an eye on Tammy and remind her she is loved and treasured. I will remind her the importance of Christmas carols, skin care, and to brew her tea in the sun. I will remind her she is not alone. I will remind her it is ok to grieve in any manner she needs to and I will try to help her pick up the pieces when the time comes. Love is unconditional and family is sacred.

A Memorial Visitation will be held on Friday, May 22, from 4:00 PM until the time of a celebration of his life at 6:00 PM at CHURCH AND CHAPEL FUNERAL HOME, 380 Bluemound Rd. (corner of Hwy. J and JJ, south of I-94), Waukesha.

Dance in the heavens-laugh with Judy, Sally, and those you love!

Love and Light-

Agoraphobia Gurl-Laura